On the ballistic charts the velocity and energy are basically the same for both rounds from two companies.
Not an expert by any means, just going by some of what I've read about recoil.
Isn't a significant portion of the recoil from the expelling gasses from the barrel after the bullet has left?
I think that powder burn speed could contribute more to recoil than an extra nine grains on the projectile.
IIRC, expelling gasses is the common explanation for why a short-barrel gun recoils more than a long-barrel gun when shooting identically loaded cartridges. The projectile gets less energy but recoil is higher. This leaves the expelling gasses to blame for the increase in recoil.
Propellant gases only produce recoil when there is something to push against. Blank ammunition doesn't recoil upon firing, but when a projectile is introduced, recoil is directly proportional to the weight of that projectile. The powder charge has much less effect. Lets compare a 150 gr bullet in an 8 pound .30/06 rifle with both fast and slow burning powders, then with a 220 gr load with slow burning powder.
According to JBM, a 150 gr bullet that is loaded ahead of 49 grs IMR 4895 makes about 2800 fps and produces about 17 fp of recoil. When the same bullet is loaded with 59 grs of IMR 4831, its driven to a similar velocity, and produces 19 fp of recoil, a slight though measurable increase. But if we increase bullet weight to 220 grs, and 59 grs of R-22, while the bullet is driven to only about 2600 fps, the recoil jumps to 27 fp!
We see that there is quite a difference between the powder weight charge between fast and slow burning powders, yet the calculator suggests only a slight difference in recoil, but with an increase in bullet weight, the difference in recoil becomes quite significant.
I have to disagree with the part in bold.
First, rockets propel themselves through space (a vacuum) by expelling gasses, works fine.
Second, the atmosphere is not nothing, so the expelled gasses have that as well to push against.
Blanks have a relatively small powder charge and do not build much pressure. The work being done is so small, any recoil is barely noticeable.
The basic physics are that any force in the muzzle direction will be felt by the gun and the holder in the opposite direction (as per Newton's Third Law of Motion). This includes forces from pushing the projectile, atmosphere, and even the expelled gasses in the forward direction.
I'm not saying expelled gasses is the only factor in recoil, but I do believe it can be a significant factor.
Your comparison to a rocket engine in space is interesting. When the rocket fires in space, it propels the space vehicle, the bullet if you will, but are the astronauts pushed back in their seats? If not, there is no recoil. If there is recoil from the combustion of the powder in a blank firing pistol, with no blank firing device attached, any recoil is far exceeded by the weight of the pistol, so there is no measurable, or should I say felt recoil without a projectile.
I've always felt the same and I've always had a preference for 124gr bullets.From my experience, 115gr has the snappiest recoil, then goes 124gr, and 147gr has lightest recoil.



























