You are off to a really good start but here are a few tips that can help.
Most important - if it hurts, make it not hurt. I would recommend putting on a muzzle brake and/or a shoulder recoil pad. Flinching will never help you shoot. Noise is another huge part of recoil... ear plugs and the best muffs you can get (33db) Under cover, things are going to be way louder and that will cause some shooters to "shut down" as their brains want them to stop and run away.
Sounds like the scope is not adjusted properly in location and focus for you. Did you set up the scope yourself or did a "shop"? When you are in a comfy shooting position, the view through the eye piece should be right there and clear. If you have to move, it is not right. If you find you need to lean forward to get a full view, move the scope back. If you keep getting "black out" in the eye piece, move it forward. You would never ask a stranger to choose shoes for you... why would you want someone else to mount your scope?
If the family is ok with this, make the rifle safe (take bolt out), set up the rifle on a table to replicate your bench, play with scope position fore and aft AND higher and lower.... move the comb up and down. close your eyes, get comfy behind the rifle, open your eyes, if the scope view is not right there, move the scope. Keep adjusting until you have found it..... now come back off and on over a few days and make sure it really is in the right spot.
The ocular focus may be off and that will also cause issues with comfy viewing as your eye/brain fights to keep things in focus.
Now that you are comfy with the rifle.... go over EVERYTHING and tighten it up. The design doesn't work well if parts are loose and often they aren't.... Rock solid?
Practise dry fire....get comfy, aim at a small object out a window... the reticle should be dead steady at this stage of learning... sand bags, rests, whatever to cradle and hold the rifle in place. Light grip, squeeze and click... if you have a smooth trigger pull and not jerking, your view of the reticle will not move during the entire process. Keep watching the target and reticle through the entire process.. do not blink or close your eyes.
If you see the reticle hop when the trigger breaks, you are likely jerking the trigger. Put a video camera on yourself and record your dry firing. It should be the most boring 5 min video where NOTHING is moving. bolt cycles, click, cycles, click... but YOU stay in the same point during each trigger break and the rifle doesn't move at all.
Practise for a few weeks until you know you can keep the reticle steady before, during and after that trigger breaks. NOW go shoot, and I bet things will be more consistent.
If the rests and position/follow through is good, the rifle will move very little after the shot (some bipods like the MPOD are far better at keeping tracking true). Try shooting with lower mag... not the best scope and optics tend to fade at the highest mag so you may get a better/easier to use view at lower mag.
practise, practise, practise... know where the reticle was when the shot broke. YES, you will need to keep your eyes open.
Enjoy the journey.
Jerry