The reason for the huge gap in torque specification of 30ft/lbs to 80 ft/lbs is because of the original barrel nut design, if you haven't achieved the minimum of 30 ft/lbs when the gas tube cutout of the barrel nut aligns with the gas tube hole in the receiver ot you got slightly past it when you get to 30ft/lbs, you gotta torque to the next gas tube cutout.
Also, copper-based anti-seize as been used VERY extensively by american armorers (both military and civilian tactical shops) on barrel nuts, with no ill effect through the life cycle of the barrel, that is, when the barrel becomes shot out and it's time to replace it the barrel nut has not seized nor galled on the receiver. Even if the Loctite C5A copper anti-seize (what they mostly use) and Permatex copper anti-seize componds contain a small amount of graphite in the mix, it doesn't cause a problem. It's designed to prevent galling and seizing, so it doesn't.
You can use the proper moly grease if you want, but you have to be aware that anti-seize has been used successfully.
Not all moly greases are created equal, most of the stuff you'll find around is graphite based, you don't want that.
Also, it's a very good idea to apply metallic anti-seize on the muzzle threads.