The gas action of your M14 rifle is sensitive to different powders and needs one with a medium burn rate. I do not believe IMR 4350 is a good choice for your rifle. Also really heavy bullets (175gr +) are not recommended for normal loads. The 168gr is perfectly fine with the right powder and many people shoot HPBT 168gr match bullets from M14 and M1s.
It is generally recommended to load between 147-173gr bullets for the M14 using standard jacketed bullet loads.
A powder in the suitable burn rate range for the action of this type of semi auto gas rifle such as IMR 4895, H4895, AA 2495, BL C2, H335, Win 748, IMR 4064 (and there are others).
An example load for a Sierra 168gr HPBT from Hodgdons website;
168gr SIE HPBT IMR 4895 .308" 2.800" OAL 41.0gr start 2447fps 39,700 PSI 45.4C max 2758fps 58,000 PSI
It is also important with this type of rifle to make sure the primers are fully seated (just below flush with the case bottom) to lessen the possibility of a slam fire.