Everything about the situation, from why the guys were on meth and stealing in the first place, to the fact that this family is getting run through a meat grinder over it, is UNREASONABLE!
It's a tricky thing, trying to inject select slivers of reason, into a wholly crazy and unreasonable situation.
There's lots wrong with this whole situation. At the moment, stopping the courts from financially ruining this family, is the best way to help it (I think). What else do we do, other than turn a blind eye, and hope it's never us on the other end?