Hemi
My 2 cents worth:
1) he should have given you a chance to respond - in which case you would come and get it. Most other guys would for sure allow you time to respond (see 4)
2) NO, you do not need to send an EMT for a F2F happening later in the same day (however some sellers wants this and I can tell you why - i was stood up twice by the same guy on a F2F deal) so if you pay first they know you are going to show up and if that is what he wanted he should say so
3) No offence to you my friend but "i want it" is not the same as "I will take it"...been there, done that, got the T shirt...guys say they want it, I meet them, then they want to negotiate....nope.
4) some guys are tied to their phone - I am not one of them, also the wifi where I work doesn't allow me to connect to CGN. So some guys set up their profile such that all PM's sent to them will also send a message of the PM to your email - you may want to set up your profile so that you immediately get emails
5) Don't let one guy ruin your day. There are lots of great guys on this forum, but there is no shortage of jerks either. You will figure out which are which.