Anyone that thinks that everyone else has the same state of mind as they do needs to have their head checked.
I personally have a slightly abrasive personality and find it amusing that anyone would get offended at something someone else says.
It's not about him trying to offend, it's ppl taking it too seriously. I know lots of guys that seem to be having a bad day for their whole life and if you want to think it's because of you, good luck with that.