If your ring tops are touching the ring bottoms, you have either crushed your scope and the reticle is now just floating around loose OR your rings were machined out of spec and are too large.
Many people way over torque their scope rings. With a torque screw driver (Wheeler FAT wrench) you would probably be surprised at how light it actually feels when using the torque that is called for by manufacturers.
This is great advice. I was really suprised as to how light the torque spec felt when I first got my wheeler fat wrench. I was over-tightening grossly before with just a torx key and my fingers. The right tool for the job sure makes life easier, and if not easier at least it is one more variable you can cross off the list as far as inconsistencies go.