Forget about 'OAL' - it's a meaningless spec. What you want to do is seat the bullets such the the ogive is making light contact with the lands (or a hair back from the lands). When you seat bullets this way, the OAL will vary depending on the exact bullet used, as they have different ogives. What I mean is that, for a 75 VMAX, your OAL might be something like 2.5" with light contact to the lands. With a 50gr VMAX also seated so that it touches, the OAL might only be 2.3."
So here's what you do:
1 -seat a bullet as far out of an empty case as you possibly can
2 -drop the (un charged) case into your action, and try to close the bolt. *DONT FORCE IT* - it probably won't chamber.
3 -dial your seater down a twist, and try again.
4 - repeat steps 2 & 3 until the bolt closes with minor force. Then back the seater off 1/4 turn, and you're good to go.
Or buy an OAL gauge (like the stony point ones that let you use your own bullets) and follow the directions. Make sure you use it with the bullet you're intending to load for.
The optimal OAL will vary between firearms, as it depends on freebore and throat lenght.And as the barrel wears and the throat erodes, the OAL will grow.