Some 35 years ago I had a 243 made for me by a well known gunsmith, on a 98 action with a heavy targe barrel. I had been reloading for other calibres for ten years prior to this, but this was my first 243. Since it was for a type of target shooting I was doing, I sold the rifle after the target shooting ended.
Next got a beautiful little German rifle, sorry, forget the name at the moment. Later gave it to a son and bought the Ruger 77.
I've stated this before, but things were done a little different at the time I started reloading. WARNING, WAIVER. Do not load as I have done. Go by your books and load your way.
I work up my loads by taking my loading press and outfit to the range. I load a charge that I know is safe, and fire it. Then, I reload that empty, with one more grain of powder. I keep on doing this, going up one grain at a time, and always using the same brass case. I look for all the usual signs of pressure, but there is one sure sign. I very carefully judge how the primer goes in. If the primer pocket is enlarged, so the primer goes in easier than it did, that is a sure sign of a heavy overload. That is why I use the same case over and over. Other pressure signs always show up for me, before the primer pocket enlarges. As a matter of fact, I have never yet enlarged the primer pocket doing this. When other pressure signs show up I quit, then drop back maybe two grains, for a shootable load.
There is often quite a difference in different rifles, as to what their top load is. The Ruger will take at least three grains more powder than will the German. Thus, I have to very clearly mark my loaded rounds. The Ruger loads would not "blow up" the German, of course, but may stick the bolt. When I check my loads against what a loading book says, it usually shows that the German will barely take a "maximum" load, while the Ruger will be maybe two or three grains over. I have two 30-06 rifles that display exactly the same characteristics.
All this talk about having to get just the right load for "your" rifle, usually comes about because the rifles need bedding. A properly bedded rifle is not very fussy about normal loads. One time when I was working up a load in a 30-06, as described above, with 180 grain bullets, I shot five shots at the 100 yard target, each load a grain of powder more than the one before. When I checked my target I found that all five had made a 1¼ inch group!