Barrel life is very subjective, because the end of life point is very subjective. However when you compare life using the same consistent method, the relative life of each cartridge does have some significance. I have used
this calculator in Excel to calculate life of various options. Here are the results for some of the cartridges being discussed. Powder assumed was H1000 except for the 284 Win where I used H4831, and the 06 with H4350.
Cartridge -
Est. Life
25-06 - 1080
6.5x284 - 1640
270 Win - 1670
284 Win - 1410
30-06 - 1570
If you want to find tune these, then download the Excel spreadsheet and change the variables. I standardized on a shot rate of 42 (seconds between shots). It has a big influence. Powder does too. If you could find a powder with less heat for the 284 and 30-06 they would probably improve some. H1000 is one, but appears to be a bit slow for those cartridges, and Hodgdon does not list loads for it.
In any case I would not eliminate the 6.5x284 based on barrel life.