WhelanLad - I just received the 2014 Woodleigh reloading manual - they describe how to establish maximum COAL in your rifle - using wood dowels or a dowel with a cleaning rod. Then they recommend .020" to .040" "clearance" or "jump" for starting - some bullets / rifles might want more or less jump. As per the post #3 above, for a hunter, whatever number you come up with MUST fit and feed from the magazine - FIRST. Once that is established, likely want to know that you are not "jamming" into your lands, at that length.
Despite what you might read on-line - is not necessary to spend $$$ to buy gizmo for establishing that length. Some fuss a lot about variation among bullet tip to ogive in a box of bullets - but then fire the things in a mass produced, store-bought rifle. Not sure that will amount to any difference that you could see on your target - whether measuring from bullet ogive or from bullet tip - if you already "backed off" .020" or so. I had previously read the same procedure - possibly in a Nosler manual, possibly in a John Barsness book or article - has been my practice for many years - fit the bullet length to feed from magazine, then ensure that the bullet is not "jammed" into the lands - and then go shoot stuff.
I do load with mostly "standard" bullet seaters - so the seating "cup" is going to contact the bullet somewhere - not necessarily on the bullet ogive - but seems once set - all the loads are going to be the same - from the cartridge face / headstamp to the bullet seater contact point. Is possible to measure some variation from rear of case head to some bullet tips - and that might make difference for bench rest competition and or custom made barrels - not sure, though, it has ever caused me to "miss" a deer that I shot at.