Since you don't seem to be able to let this go (at least two threads going that I have seen), and you are bitterly disappointed by the offerings of the various dealers you have checked with, I would suggest that reloading might be for you. You can buy the Gold Dot bullets and deal with the rest yourself, including loading up to +P+ thermonuclear levels if you feel like tempting fate. Custom Reloaders in BC also sell commercial reloads using the Gold Dot bullets.
Mark