No, you're not getting it.
Grab 10 bullets out of your box you are loading from.
Measure those 10 bullets from base to tip and you will see some of the variance in the bullet lengths, this will show up in your loaded rounds as well unless you measure off the ogive.
Also, line those 10 bullets standing up side by side on a flat surface and see if the canelure is in the same place on every bullet, I would bet they are not.
Your seater is most likely seating where it should unless you were using long VLD bullets in which case seating off the tip would cause serious bullet runout but your "to the tip" measurments would be close to equal.