I really don't see what the point being made is, by those clamoring for a bigger gun. I love shooting my .300 Wby with 200gr bullets at 3,000 fps and 180gr bullets at over 3,300 fps without any trouble at all. I also enjoy 3.5" 12 gauge 000 shells out of my REM 870 Super Mag, whereas I've seen people claim too much recoil out of a Win 94 in .30-30 or a .410 shotgun. So what's the point?
I can shoot my Para .45 with 230gr +P loads all day without any complain, but the damn revolver just kicks different in my hand and my mitts don't like it, if it's kicking too much. Not for more than 100 rounds or so, anyways.
But the point is, we’re all different and you need to get the grips that best fit your hands, your style of shooting and your shooting needs. For me, after 3 or 4 hours shooting steel plates, the Hogue grips would make my hand hurt. Not from recoil, but from my middle finger straining to find something to hold onto over such a small diameter. The Grippers are larger at that same point, just behind the trigger guard, and my hand never bothered me once they were on. YMMV
By the way, those who think the .44 Mag is a real man’s gun, you should try a couple of hundred rounds of .454 Casull or .500 S&W, or maybe of .45-70 or .308 Win out of a 10” barreled T/C Encore. Then we’ll talk about what a real man’s gun is
