I couldn't let the old man continue laughing at me, so I took his idea and improved on it!
Using fencing pliers (can be had at garage sales for ~$3) and ~ 1/2" clear vinyl tubing will pull all the bullets I want!!
The tubing slides over the bullet, and the fencing pliers make about 4 points of contact (or more) around the bullet. Which results in ZERO damage to the bullet. and it is considerably cheaper than any alternative!!!
As an aside note: I only pulled about 100 bullets, and the vinyl tubing required replacement... I would call that cheap.
Hope someone finds this helpful.
Cheers,
Vair