First, I size the case neck with a Redding bushing die just small enough that the bullet is only lightly held in place.
I seat the bullet too long so it will slip when the bolt is closed.
If there is not enough neck tension, you will get inconsistent readings.
If there is too much neck tension it can jam hard into the lands and even get stuck.
So find a balance of neck tension that works reliably and identify that case and use that same case every time.
Oh, and this is very important... You want to make sure you do not size the neck all the way to the shoulder. If you do... There is often a donut, or a constriction there, where the neck meets the shoulder. If the bearing surface of the bullet comes into contact with that constriction, it will jam the bullet hard into the lands and mess up your readings. If the neck is only resized about half way down, the donut will be clear and the bullet will seat freely and consistently.
There are other ways where you measure the length of a rod dropped down the barrel and you measure between the bolt face and a seated bullet, but I have never found that to be as reliable as what I stated earlier in this post.