Hot caustic bluing solution can attack soft solder.
Cold bluing is generally a pretty poor substitute for hot bluing, rust bluing, hot water bluing, or one of the numerous coatings.
The quality of a hot bluing job depends to a great extent on the quality of preparation of the parts to be blued. Most of the labour and expense are in the preparation.
A bit of wear and tear is normal with use. Don't worry about it.