JLK is the name of a smaller bullet maker. The founder was named "Jimmy L Knox", I think he has since sold the company.
OK, use Varget, and load so that you are .015" clear of the lands (this is assuming that there is a decent enough amount of the bullet still in the case mouth - there probably will be).
You will probably find the Hornady 75 BTHP to be relatively tolerant, accuracy-wise, of bullet jump. You may well find that seating the bullet shorter or longer doesn't really make much difference; this is good actually, it means that your load won't be critically sensitive to variations in seating depth.
Work your way from the start load up to the max load. Use 0.5 grain steps at the lower end, go to 0.2 or 0.3 grain setups after you cross the midpoint. Shooting your groups over a chronograph is useful, if this is possible.
Work your way up to a good hot (but still safe) load, you'll likely find good accuracy and consistency there.
F/L sizing your brass is fine.
Do your best to seat your bullets straight (if you have or can borrow a runout gauge, see if you can adjust your loading procedures in order to give you .005" or less of Total Indicated Runout).
Throwing powder charges is more than good enough for now. Later when you are fine-tuning your load, it might be useful to weigh each charge then.