The collet neck die should keep the donut from intruding into the case neck. Just put a bullet into the fired case and it should slide freely in and out. This is one of the big positives when using this form of neck sizing.
The dreaded donut that concerns us is brass flow INSIDE the neck. This screws up bullet seating and when pushed to the outside, can increase case neck thickness enough that it stops the bullet from being released - huge pressure spike and a wild shot.
You don't need to have all your brass trimmed the same length to neck turn. The neck turner doesn't index off anything on the front of the case. As was said, the case is fireformed to your chamber and the real index is the case shoulder.
All that is needed is run the neck turner back on the case so that it cuts this bulge flush with the neck. Touching a bit of the shoulder doesn't hurt either. You are getting rid of the high spot/bulge.
If you are getting a lot of brass flow into the case neck, they will now not be even in thickness. Measure several cases at 90deg spots and if more then 1 thou off, you can skim the entire neck as part of this process.
I am surprised to see this much brass flow in 1 firing. maybe there is something a bit loose in the chamber but it will not affect overall accuracy. Maybe you have soft brass?. Just something you have to maintain in your case prep.
I always neck turn AFTER sizing. You want that mandrel to be snug fit in the neck otherwise, you will cut a wavy neck - thick and thin. besides the mandrels are for a sized neck diameter and will be super loose in a fired neck.
Eventually, the cases will grow enough that you need to trim. Trim length is no biggie and will not affect your accuracy one bit. The only reason to trim is to keep the necks from being too long and jamming into the leade of the chamber.
In my 223s, I run them pretty hard and trimming happens after 3 to 4 firings. I have now mechanised the process with a Forster 3 in 1 cutter and a second trimmer to handle the outside neck turning duties. All powered by an electric screwdriver.
What a time and hand saver....
I will skim the necks each time I trim. Looks like you will have to for this rig as well.
Part of running a shallow neck case and some elevated pressures.
Jerry