i think the lyman is the best one to start out with, and especially if you're just getting into reloading.
Hodgdon powders has a good information online (i think there's a sticky at the top of the reloading forum page??) that lists a bunch of loads with hodgdon, winchester, and imr powders. I find i'm using it a lot lately, but you still need to have at least one book on the shelf as a reference.
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