Hi David, I'm glad I seen this early, as you are going to literally be bombarded with suggestions here. Take my advice, if you are measuring consistent powder charges and have consistent OAL do not go down the rabbit hole trying to lower your SD. I have wasted so much time and money playing with trimming, and neck tension, and weight sorting stuff, it's all pretty much a waste of time if you don't need sub 10fps SD. Considering you are shooting an FNAR I'm pretty confident you aren't shooting any F-class matches or benchrest (the only 2 disciplines I would waste time doing 99% of the brass prep and sorting stuff people do.) and thereby don't need sub 10fps SD's.
So here it is man, start changing components, I would suggest the powder first. There is nothing wrong with IVI brass, I use IVI brass myself and doing no brass prep except cleaning and resizing I get an SD of 12 FPS over 20 shots fired. There are a ton of people out there claiming rediculous SD's after firing 3 or 5 shots, which is statistically meaningless. Your bullets and primers are good quality, and you should be able to get a good SD just changing to a different powder. For that weight of bullet try Varget/IMR4895/H4895. I know they are super hard to get right now, but I tried benchmark with heavier slugs in my .308 and it was no good, I got early pressure signs and slow muzzle velocity.
Like I said, I've been down this road before, I tried all kinds of stuff trying to get my chosen components to work, but for me it was my bullet choice, the gun just didn't like my hornadys. I was getting like 18fps SD's and pulling my hair out. Then I changed to 155gr lapua scenars and boom, doing everything else the same SD's went down to 12. Oh and that's not even weighing every charge, I load on a dillon xl 650 progressive press like an animal, mainly because I have a life and spending 14 hours in the reloading room to get 20 bullets loaded doesn't appeal to me.
Good luck man, don't stress, the solution is easier than you think. this is exactly what I do:
1. Clean brass in tumbler
2. lube brass
3. resize, prime, charge, and seat in the dillon
4. tumble loaded rounds to get lube off
5. go shoot