You can use small rifle primers in place of small pistol, just not the reverse.
As mentioned, you need to lower your powder charge and work your load back up. The hotter primers tend to boost the pressure.
IPSC shooters in the 80's and 90's using .38 super and 9mm largely switched to them to manage pressure induced shearing of primer material into the firing pin channel. (as well as using firing pins better matched to the hole size.)
Part of this practice was "helped" along by panic buying of components during the Clinton era.