I'm sorry you had to experience this with rude people.
It's very unfortunate to deal with rude, greedy, or people with no couth.
But according to Falconflyer and apparently the spank, you might be the problem, as these kind of things do not happen to them, and couldn't happen because they are both such perfect and outstanding folks.......

Again I'm sorry for your experience with this, unfortunately there are some creeps on this Gunnutz site as well.
Or at least guys who think they are perfect and like to judge others without knowing a damn thing......