Awright.
Consider the question from this end, in a place (CGN) where a bunch of dreaming but otherwise ignorant and unqualified kids have over the years posted similar questions.
Since you have some actual experience, you might actually get somewhere with it.
It is worth establishing that sort of thing upfront, though you did not seem to consider that. Y'all note the quality advice you were getting over on castboolits from the fellas that were pretty convinced you need pneumatic not hydraulic?
In any case, one of many places I would check in, is on the practicalmachinist site. There are a bunch of guys there, that aside from being decent machinists, have a bunch of experience in motion control hardware and software.
Like as not, a programmable control with interlock settings is available. Or you could learn how to program an Arduino/Raspberry PI/Beaglebone typemicro computer to run it for you, but I'm thinking probably not.
How complicated do you wish to make this press?
To be perfectly clear, my experience was in aircraft hydraulics. I spent a great deal of my life troubleshooting hydraulic landing gear systems and working with assorted means of interlocking same, both mechanical and electrical/electronic
The press itself is a simple cylinder and hydraulic power pack. The controls and safeties are where you are going to really make or break the deal, and depending upon how complicated or simple (and subsequently dangerous) you want to make the unit be.
In my best assessment, a fella could do a lot worse than to have the capability of being able to have a programmable timer on the hydraulics to program dwell time. A two switch safety system to keep hands out of the system would be wise. Or a safety interlock on a cover. Pretty certain the Corbin Hydraulic machine uses two separate finger switches for the deadman.
A programmable control capable of reading the pressure as well as programming dwell time would be stylin'. Less than that would be simpler.
Cheers
Trev