Okey Dokey, so what is the gauge used to measure length to the ogive?? That should be an addition to my tools I think.
Here is how I do it without a special gauge. First I take a fired, and neck sized only case, and sacrifice it. I use a Dremel disk to make one single fine cut through the neck and shoulder in the longitudinal direction. Take one of the bullets from the batch you plan to load. Make sure you get one with a tip in good condition. I mark it with a felt marker so I don't mix it up. Slide the market bullet into the split neck case, just a short amount. Adjust the tension so it has tension but still slides fairly easily. You then carefully chamber this dummy load, and even more carefully withdraw it, while holding your finger on the side of the case so the bullet is not dislodged. Then measure OAL to the tip with a vernier, and record it. I repeat at least three times, and more until I get a consistent reading time after time. I find once you get close to a good one, just pull the bullet out a very small amount and then chamber it again to make sure it goes back to the same spot.
So now you know the OAL for that specific bullet (not all bullets in the box, as they are likely all different) when the bullet is just touching the lands. Record it. Next you have to determine where you want your bullet seated relative to the touching position. If you want a 0.010" jam into the lands then add 0.010" to that number. Reverse if you want a jump to the lands.
Now you load a cartridge for real and seat this specific marked bullet quite long. Then by trial and error seat it deeper and deeper until you come up with the calculated OAL which you adjusted for jam or jump. If you calculate thread pitch you can speed that up some. But, it sounds like you are practiced at that already. Lock your die in this position, and load the rest of the bullets. OAL will vary, but distance to the ogive should not vary much.
If you want to buy another die to do this I would suggest a Forster Ultra Seater with Micrometer. That way you can record the die position, and the next time you load a bullet from that batch you can use the same setting. Otherwise you have to go through the routine again. And of course every time you switch brands or bullet weight you have to go through the routine. Also if the barrel is new, you may want to repeat as the barrel lands will burn fairly quickly for the first 100 rounds or so.