i have a Lee hand loading kit, the resizing die requires that i hammer the case into the die, is there a way for me to just resize the neck with the hand loading die
Not to be flippant as I have no knowledge of your financial circumstances, but the least expensive used press out there and moving beyond The Campfire Kit will pay off in many ways, including your current situation. They are excellent for dirt cheap entry into reloading, and for those thinking of reloading on the run in a future SHTF situation. Beyond that, they have lots of limitations, one of which you're now running into.
The posts to date put up here by others offer you several roads that provide answers to your questions, and several of the roads that lead to Rome - or more accurately, a happy Lee Enfield reloader.
Sooner or later somebody will stickie a post on all the "issues" with brass in Lee Enfields, what can dramatically shorten case life, and how various adjustments/techniques can address that. I'm pretty sure I've seen a stickie on this over at Milsurps, or maybe I remember the little action GIF biged51 included in his explanation from a similar discussion over there.
Anyways:
First, Lee Enfields DON'T have "excess headspace" (as long as the chambers are within military go/no go standards). Nor do they have "oversize chambers". That's simply urban legend, initially created by people who didn't understand what they were trying to explain to others.
What Lee Enfields have is a chamber and accompanying ball ammunition that was INTENTIONALLY designed to specifications that would feed even the most groddy, possibly covered in verdigris cartridges that had sat for decades in some steamy military bunker in some far flung corner of the Empire. And after WWI with the advent of the No. 4 Mk1, chamber cartridges possibly covered with bits of mud and water from a slimy trench.
The designers of the .303 British chamber and the ammunition for it did not design it to provide competition accuracy, and they certainly didn't design it out of concern for reloaders wanting to reload the brass. They designed the chamber/cartridge specs to provide the most reliable feeding that soldiers armed with that rifle would face in wartime conditions on the battlefield. They didn't care about what happened or was done with the cases once they were ejected from the chamber onto the battlefield.
So three things (at least) are at play here when you intend to reload cases from factory/arsenal ammunition.
First, you have various arsenals around the world who produced Lee Enfields and their chambers intended for wartime use, under wartime conditions. Lots of variation between chambers there. Presumably, ALL left the factory only after passing a go/no go test.
Second, as Ed mentioned earlier, Lee Enfields headspace on the rim, not the shoulder. So not only can it be completely normal for intended-for-one-firing-only ammunition to have a gap between the face of the bolt and the base of the cartridge when chambered for firing, but the manufacturers of that ammunition did not make the rims the same dimensions - particularly North American manufacturers supplying the civilian trade.
If you have assorted .303 British cases laying about - better yet some new in the box commercial ammunition and some military ball like the old Greek HXP or Radway Green (kind of unlikely for most now)... take a micrometer to the rims and do some comparative measuring. The commercial stuff is generally thinner - more "excess headspace" there. I suggest saying a lot of civilian .303 ammunition is undersized is a statement that is more accurate than saying Lee Enfields have excess headspace?
And a third: some Lee Enfields either just before escaping from the hands of the military into the wilds of the civilian world either were at the point of failing a no-go test by the gun plumbers, or were used sufficiently after entering civilian life to get to the point where they would now fail (or almost fail) a no-go test.
And so to your current situation:
Factory ammo out of the box is what it is, as far as fit in the chamber goes. Unless you value the cases more than having ready to go ammunition out of the box, the stretching of the cases on first firing cannot be avoided.
But it can be - if you have the right tools on your reloading bench or the right selection of O-rings. The techniques to do that were just explained in a recent thread. The Coles Notes version is that by a couple of methods, you can eliminate the gap between bolt face and base of the case prior to first firing. Lacking equipment, you can use the O-ring method described elsewhere for future first firing of commercial ammunition if you wish. Cheap like borscht.
But the cases you have were just fired without anything being done to them. To some degree, depending on the ammunition and your chamber, they are already stretched. Or (if it makes you feel better) you now have cases for reloading that are perfectly fireformed to your rifle's chamber. If you have multiple Lee Enfields, ONE rifle's chamber. Those cases, after you fired the commercial ammunition in your Lee Enfield, as they sit now are headspacing on the shoulder like a 30-06, rather than on the rim is they did before firing.
Whatever damage was to be done to those cases is now done. It's what you do from this point on that determines what you get for case life from those cases in future reloads. The wrong way to do it is a total full length resize job in the resizing/depriming die after every firing - that may be the only option you have with the Lee Campfire Kit, where you can't do precise resizing.
The right way to do it to get maximum case life and enhance accuracy potential (although the rifle could easily be the determining factor) is to resize the case no more than necessary. A Lee collet die set will do that for you - but that won't work with The Campfire Kit. As will adjusting a full length die until you can feel some resistance when closing the bolt on a resized case: commonly called a "crush fit". Probably won't work with The Campfire Kit either.
So to summarize:
Yes, those cases are almost certainly safe to reload, but with The Campfire Kit, you are going to stretch them more with each resizing and loading cycle. And so you should be checking for incipient head separations as described by another poster. Oh... and maybe find a separated head extractor or some cerrosafe in case a failing case gets past you and you have a complete separation in the chamber at firing.
Coming up with the scratch to buy an inexpensive new or used reloading press, along with the very inexpensive Lee Collet resizing die kit, will get you a long ways down the road to Happy Heaven when feeding your Lee Enfield. That will allow you to precisely resize your cases no more than necessary each time, prolonging case life. Not to mention the other bennies of having an actual reloading press.
A bag or two of the very fine .303 British cases manufactured by Privi Partisan will be doing yourself a favour. They are relatively spendy in comparison to buying a similar bag of cases wearing the Winchester, etc brand, but far superior and you'll get much longer life out of them if properly preparing them for first firing and then resizing afterwards.
BTW... it appears you may be in luck if you're interested in buying some of their brass for reloading - it's on sale at one place right now. I understand they're hard to find at most sources of reloading components in Canada:
https://www.westernmetal.ca/shooting/303-british-new-prvi-brass-bags-50-prvi303b-50