Though I read the lee instructions and always refer to my manuals - I found a good video on YouTube (fortune cookie 45LC) as suggested. Don't know why I didn't think of that before.
I was doing most things right but will now clean before decapping so lube on throughout process. I was lubing, decamping and resizing then cleaning so primer pocket was also free of discharged primer and would therefore also be cleaned. I think I'll clean the pocket after because lube was coming off.
Also think that not flaring enough - will adjust die to flare more. That seems to be the main issue. The case mouth isn't wide enough to accept (in this case factory Hornady) .458 bullet. If all fails I will go back to classic - never had an issue w it.