If I can wade in here, I would sincerely recommend that you just go with a single stage press of good quality and some good accessories; At least to start with.
So, my recommended list for you is;
The latest edition of the Speer or Hornady reloading manual. -Read it, then read it again.
Single stage press (kit if possible because it will group a bunch of useful stuff with it.
A balance beam or electronic scale for verifying powder charges.
A set of dies and shellholder for each caliber you want to reload. (carbide ones for pistol)
A powder measure- Makes the process a little quicker once you establish the weight of each thrown charge
A vernier caliper to properly measure the length of your loaded cartridge -CTC for 25 bux
A handheld priming tool- because you will end up buying one anyway and it makes priming cases way faster.
Case trimming and deburring tools (for bottleneck cases)
A bullet puller or inertia type hammer-
A buddy to go through the process (could be a video on Youtube)
There are lots of other tools out there, but this is what I personally would recommend to start with. Others may have their favorites and that's OK too.
There are several types of reloader out there. Speed freaks and who load the cartridge to it's max safe pressures (and sometimes over) are risking both firearms and their physical safety. You can push the safe limit to a point, but the results of exceeding it are horrific.
Again, this is my own recommendation so do with it what you will;
Load 4 or 5 cases at the lower end of the recommended published data and increase the powder charge in .2 or .3 grain stages until you get to just below the max published load. Go to the range and fire each batch. You will likely find that each group will print in a progressively smaller circle and will then start to open up after you hit the "sweet spot". You can stop there and use the bullet puller to disassemble the unfired rounds and reclaim the components. Then you can go back and load for the best group size, because you can adjust your sights to compensate for where the bullets hit the target.
That's it in a nut shell.
Cheerz
This is fantastic advice and I fully agree with you
Fortunately, I am not one of the speed freaks you spoke of. I am way too pretty to risk messing up my face with questionable reloads. I do plan on taking it slow learning this skill, I really would hate hurting myself, or even worse, someone else by messing up.
I was looking at turreted presses simply because
1. I am a bit of a hoarder, yep, I'll admit it and I am coping ...I have a hard time selling things, not sure why, LOL. I have roman and greek coins that I've been telling myself I'm going to sell .....still sitting in binder on book shelve after a year. But in all honesty, I know that if I buy a single stage, I will eventually go to a turreted and will have a single sitting in the back room for years. So in my case, I may as well go big with all the gear I need ( or want )while staying within budget. this is beneficial both financially and will save the wife from harping on me about the clutter in the storage room..
2. I burn through lots of ammo. I can easily burn through 1000 plus rounds in a month, ( more if I bring my buddies out for a day) so I was thinking I could manufacture more without sacrificing quality.
3. I was also thinking that with a turret press I could just " set up and forget " Once I have everything set up properly I could just change the holders for different calibers.
But I am more that willing to take any advice from those who know and do, you have my thanks