take a lead pencil and firmly run it over all around the joint where you don't want solder. The residual graphite will keep the solder from grabbing onto the barrel and allow you to easily clean up the joint with a sharp razor blade (carefully! so not to scratch)
Also, clean and flux both the bottom edge of the blade and the bottom of the slot, and lightly tin them (flow molten solder over them to get a thin film) Shake the excess off when it's hot, the graphite will keep it off if you did the sides of the blade and the barrel. Then press the blade into the slot and heat just enough to flow the solder, you won't even have to add any.
You CANT overdo the pencil lead, just don't get it where you WANT solder to stick, but go over the area all around the slot several times and don't miss a spot