That's something I used to believe, and I know have said the same thing numerous times. Recent events have changed my position.
I just built a 6.5-300 Win (because I didn't have one). Dummy loads with my necked down brass measured .294" at the necks and reamer was .298". Did a test cut on an old barrel and came out at .298". Perfect right?
Ran through 50 rounds doing some initial load development and when I went to reload those cases the bullets wouldn't fit into the fired cases. Oh, Oh. Measured up everything, and the cartridges were going into the chamber at .294 and coming out .294. Well that won't do, so I packed ammo, fired cases, rifle and reading glasses and made the 15 minute drive over to my gunsmith. Explained everything, and the gunsmith agreed that I wasn't blind and could read a caliper. He mentioned that the size of the fired necks didn't necessary mean much. He also pointed out that we had checked all that before the blank ever got chucked up. I couldn't argue that either, since I was there. Anyway, there's two things you can't argue with, a station wagon full of nuns and a chamber cast. We poured a cast and the throat was indeed .298".
Conclusion? Fitting bullets into fired cases might prove they are safe. The bullets not fitting into the fired cases might not prove anything. Brass just might do whatever it wants. I also concluded that I was really glad I hadn't stormed in with righteous indignation and knowing everything.
The story doesn't quite end there. After the cases had been used four times, they now measure a hair under .298 when fired. Just when you think you've unlearned some unfacts, and decided that sometimes this stuff doesn't work, you get confronted with the fact that sometimes it does.