Going from the Richard Lee book, he recommends that the ID of your re-sized neck is .002" to .003" smaller than the bullet that you use. With "normal" dies - like RCBS, the necks are squished down smaller than needed on the up-stroke, and then the necks are opened up from the inside by the expander ball on the down stroke. Some of us prefer to run that expander in going down, so that makes an extra step in sizing - one pass into the die without the expander, then a second pass with the expander set out further than normal. With dies like that, neck thickness is not as critical since neck diameter is being created from the inside, however, varying hardness of the brass can result in different "spring back" by the cases, even though the same expander ball is used. (EDIT: actually two extra steps - run through a de-capper die first to remove the primers)
Some advise to install a "crimp" to account for lack of neck tension. I have been reloading centre fire rifle since mid 1970's and do not recall ever needing or wanting to crimp a bullet, except for cast bullets, which I roll crimp into their crimping groove. I do have a number of the Lee Factory crimp dies, but have never had the need to use them.
I will add that I have never been loading four different brands of brass for the same rifle - usually I get batches of 100 or 200 cases, and go with them until pockets get loose on some, then chuck the whole batch and start over.