45c, it's been my experience as well as that of others, to find the most rifles chambered for magnum cartridges, bordering on or are actually overbore capacity, that the best performance is very close to maximum loadings.
Some folks scoff that the 7mm Rem Mag isn't overbore capacity. Yes, it is. Same argument with other cartridges, such as the 25-06, but not so much.
If you can get your 7rem mag to shoot well at lower pressures, without issues, go for it.
I gave up on magnum cartridges over two decades back. They seldom could be depended on to give me the accuracy I like and they beat the hell out of me while trying. They did everything they claimed to do on impact with soft/bony tissue.
Trying to load them down to tolerable for me recoil was a waste of my time and powder.
Your pics don't show excessive case expansion. I don't remember how much you resize your cases or how often you re anneal your cases. By the time they've been fired six times, that brass is HARD and just might not be able to expand enough to seal around the case.
If you don't want to be bothered with re annealing, then IMHO it's definitely time for new cases. You're not gaining any knowledge beating a dead horse, which those 6X cases are.