I am not a fan of the Browning ABolt or XBolt rifles, they've always struck me ladies rifles.
Small in my hands, tiny bolt handle, thin stocks etc...
Second point, which may matter only to me.
I never understand why people push a .416RM to max loads?
I've got a .416RM in a ZKK-602, which is obviously a far superior platform for the .416RM than the 'ladies rifle' Browning ABolt or XBolts.
My handload is a 400gr bullet, 78.5grs RL15, which avgs 2374fps through the Chrony.
I had no problem dropping a wolf at 200+ yds, offhand shot, or a bull moose at 250 yds, also offhand, center punched twice, and a 7' black bear at 28 paces.
Third point: recoil only matters on the bench. When I am shooting at big game I have no awareness of recoil or muzzle report.
Shooting the .416RM at big game as compared to a .30-06, I don't notice any difference, including how dead the critter ends up.