Ya really gotta decide why ya want da gat and what ya plan ta do wid it. There are so many varied choices out there in a myriad of price ranges, calibers, materials, and finishes

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Ergonomics play a huge role: are you a large, endomorphic person with huge hams; of the ectomorphic persuasion with miniscule mittens; or somewhere in between? Get something that fits your particular hand properly, and that you can lift--which may very well not be the pistol you had in mind or find most aesthetically pleasing

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Do lightweight, hi-tech, space-age materials float your boat, or are you a retro "Harley" kinda guy that likes the feel of heavy metal in your palm? Do you plan to engage in shooting sports (IPSC, IDPA, 3-gun, bullseye, etc.)? If so, buy what the mainstream shooters of each respective discipline are using--at the very least, you will be able to borrow gear and magazines in times of dire need and have a ready-made market for selling your rig if that sport turns out to be not for you

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Are you planning on reloading your own cartridges, because shooting some calibers is just plain cost prohibitive! I've actually seen guys shoot a single round of .38 Super out of a race-gun, then stop and follow the arc of the brass as it is ejected and pick it up--not my idea of fun, but they sure sound cool. I won't even mention .50AE or .454 Casull et al!
The handgun really is a "tool" and each has its own innate purpose--just because some people bang in a nail with a pipe-wrench, doesn't mean it's right, or the best choice, but sometimes it will do in a pinch: I just wouldn't want to build a house with one anymore than I would want to hunt deer with a Barrett .50 BMG

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