We are now getting something closer to the "full story" of your loading venture.
let's help you learn more from it.
You have 2 different rifles in the same caliber. Henceforth, treat them as individuals. If you shoot factory fresh ammo in them, keep the brass segregated and dedicated to the rifle it was shot it. This will make a big difference in future brass sizing. And yes, for that first firing, use the rubber o ring. I have never found a good cheap source of the rings. Have not yet tried my main gadget suppler- the Dollar Store.
I buy 50 round plastic ammo boxes for rifle ammo, and put a label on the box indicating which rifle it is intended for. Here is what this set up looks like. You will see I have ammo out for two different 303 rifles.
You can neck size your brass with your full length sizer die, by backing it off. You want to be sure the die does not touch the case shoulder when it sizes. When you partially size a case you will see a mark on the neck, showing you how much of the neck got sized. If the case was full length sized, the neck would get sized all the way down to the shoulder. if you size only half way down, the should er would probably not get touched.
I have reloaded 303 Brit thousands of times and never had a case head separation. If you had a separation on the first re-load I would be concerned about a gross headspace issue. The bolts should be serial numbered. Make sure you have not swapped them.
The trick of seating a primer with the bolt is a good one. If one rifle seats the primer almost flush and the other lets it stick half way out, you know you have a problem.
Your bullet choice was excellent. The flat base round nose ha the best chance of shooting well in a 303. Your powder choice and powder charge was also excellent.
Enjoy the sport.