Or maybe someone knows good "recipe" that will keep M14 cycling and velocities up at 2600fps with lot less felt recoil? Thanx beforehand...
I am assuming from this that you mean handloading.. I myself was asking around a few months back for some reduced recoil loads to try and make the 7.62 (308win) round fill a cqb roll. By this, I was looking for reduced recoil load that would allow me to re-aquire the target faster, being good from point blank to no more then 200 yards. My only concern; like yours, was that there would be enough pressure left over to push the op-rod back recocking the m14 reliably.
Unfortunatly while some elluded to having recipies for such a handload, nobody wanted to share

Like it was a closely guarded secret or something. Thus I was was forced to start experimenting.
I'll share with you what I found .. which wasn't a whole lot as I soon decided to abandon that project and purchase a mini-14 in .223 rem.
(i have to take care of something, I'll edit this post in about 20 mins with all my data!)
EDIT
Here is an excerp from my first After Action Report
"I...settled on Hodgsons 'youth' loads listed on their websites. I found listed: 125grain Nosler BT, 38 grains of H4895, 2.800" OAL. My only concern was the port pressur ebeing too low to push back the op rod. Tested 38 grains of IMR 4895, 40-45 grains of IMR 4895 in 1 grain incriments. 125 grain Nos Ballistic Tip bullet, CCI # 200 large rifle primer, Remington Metallic Case to a min. OAL of 2.800". (Trim to length 2.007") The results are listed below. All shot at 50 yards.:
38 grains - Very pronounced mechanical noise during cycling. Carbon found in rim and on neck. Overall dirty case. Groupings were average, approx 2". Next to no recoil.
40 and 41 grains - mild recoil, normal cycling with no abnormal sounds or malfunctions. Groupings were approx 2". Carbon on neck only. Somewhat dirty load.
42 grains- normal carbon residue, groupings 1.457 and 1.774. Not as accurate as I hoped, but the most accurate from all the charges tried.
43 and 44 grains - same as 40-41 grains above. Normal carbon residue.
45 grains - normal carbon residue. groupings approx 2"."
At no time did I experience failure to eject or recocking problems, but my conclusions state that 42 would be as low a charge with IMR 4895 in the norc M14 that I would feel comfortable going.
You may find this entertaining, "Sadly you cannot polish a turd. Not only is th ebest group onlyh averaging 1.5" at 50 yards, but the bullets are easily twice as expensive as others, as well as extremely hard to find. I think this path has lead to a dead end, and a change in bullets would be prudent."
EDIT
I found another report, this time referencing Sierra's 5th Ed Hanloading Manual (pg 536). They list th estarting charge for Bullet # 2120 SP 125 grain as 42.5 grains if IMR 4895.
I used the following:
Sierra MK #2120 125 grain Spizer Point
Rem Metallic Case
CCI # 200 large rifle primer
IMR 4895
Min OAL of 2.700"
Tested powder charges from 42 grains to 46 grains in 1 grain incirments.
42-lots of carbon, dirty case. 1.5" groups. very little recoil. No malfunctions
43-lots of carbon, less on the rim then 42. more recoil then 42 grains but still consider reduced recoil. groups average 0.750"!
44-carbon same as 43, recoil same as 43, 2" groups
45-mild carbon, recoil much more pronounced. Would not consider reduced recoil. Groups about 1".
46-mild carbon, NOT reduced recoil, max load. groups as 45 grains. Targets showing signs of stringing.
I have another report refining the load down to 43 grains. This was my final conclusion as being sufficiently reduced recoil for its intended purpose and being the most accurate load for my rifle.
I sure do hope that helps, and sorry for the novel

I just LOVE sharing my results.