You could get her a 870 decked out in a wood pink camo 20 Gauge with adjustable spacers for the stock. Or just convince her that the stock material doesn't matter, find the gun that fits her the best and get her a aftermarket stock that makes her feel fuzzy inside. I bought my woman a frilly pink 870 in 20 gauge and she was so happy about it. As soon as we went to the range and she shot my 12 Gauge all polymer semi-auto benelli she would not give it back to me. If you are looking for a pump I would look at the Browning BPS, Benelli nova or the Remington 870. They are all good guns and up to the task. Find the one that fits and feels the best.