I've been helping out with my club's Jr .22 program for a few years now. The kid's universally prefer the shorter kid's length rifles over the adult size options just because they fit their smaller frames. This really shows up when the smaller ones are shooting the full length rifles because to get their eyes anywhere close to the rear peep sight our rifles have they need to lay over the shoulder stock. This being from prone which we use in this programme. But seated isn't any better. When we shoot outdoors on the regular range the smaller kids with the long shoulder stocks end up with the stock sticking out under their armpits to get their heads close enough to the peep sights. Needless to say this feels VERY awkward for them.
But then again the older shooters we have end up all scrunched up if they try to shoot the youth size rifles we have. And that's not good either.
So I'd strongly suggest that you get TWO rifles. A single shot in the proper fitting youth size stocks and barrel for your little one and a proper adult size for your wife.
And to avoid the "ready to go again" issue with a semi auto I'd also suggest that both of these rifles be bolt action. A single shot Savage Rascal for your daughter and a Mark II repeater for the wife. I suggest the Rascal to avoid the hard to pull cocking knob on the Cricket and similar.
I think the TC could be a great youth rifle unless much of the shooting will be done from a bench/table. In that case the break action gets to be very cumbersome and the young one could end up waving the barrel around when opening and closing the action. Again the bolt action is a better option to avoid this since the rifle can simply rest between shots while the bolt is cycled.
Depending on what the wife likes shooting you might want to look into some options to the basic bolt platform. A lever action such as a Henry H001 could work out really well. And of course any .22 she can shoot will also be something you can shoot. So there doesn't need to be "his and hers". But you would likely both enjoy a little variety in your rimfire rifle styles. So one nice bolt action, a nice semi and a lever Henry would make for some good sharing at the range.