I load all my .223's, most of which are actually 5.56 LC cases, the same way. All my brass is once fired. I say that because typically for me .223 cases are a one way trip. I find them at the range after some fool has left new brass fired from his gun because he doesn't reload. I shoot them once and seldom find them for a second loading. They end up on a Range somewhere else. Occasionally I do pick up my own brass but usually not . My Mini 14 will throw brass .40 feet if I don't have the gas system choked down.
What I do is resize and deprime the cases. Then tumble them for 24 hours in Walnut hulls (Petco) with either Dillon Case polish or Nu Finish Car wax. This removes all the case lube from sizing and the cases look like new.
These cases are now ready to load.
They all get loaded with the exact same bullets and charge. Hornady 55 gr FMJ's (currently at Mid South for $461.78 for 6000ea. .07 each screamin' deal!) 25 gr of BLC2 or W748(exact same powder)and then they are crimped in the cannelure with a Lee Factory Crimp Die. This is my standard .223/5.56 load and it runs perfectly in my Kel-Tec SU16CA, Ruger Mini14, and Bushmaster Carbon 15 AR. Currently about .20 cents a round loaded.
The Lee Die is not sensitive to case length, and this is why I use it. I only use bullets with a Cannelure, and the bullet is seated so that the crimp is in the cannelure. OAL, which I never check, is below max by a considerable margin.
Guys make it easy on yourself on loading .223's find something that works for you and stick with it. It will save you a bunch of heart aches in the long run.
Endless experimentation is pointless. This round is at it's best as full military surplus. A load slightly under that will work in any gun and you don't have to worry about over pressure or anything bad happening. There is little to be gained by loading a bunch of different bullet weights as well. 55gr or 62 gr are the most common for a reason.
Granted there are other scenarios that would require bigger bullets like long range target shooting and the like, or maybe if you want to use the gun for hunting small deer for meat. No varmint is going to know the difference in being hit by a 55 gr bullet or a 69 -75 gr bullet, and unless your gun has a 1:7 or 1:8 twist barrel it won't shoot the heavier bullets well any way.
I am very big on finding a standard load for each of my guns and sticking with it. You shoot a lot more like that, and spend a lot less time searching for Nirvana.
My .02
Randy