The man in my Avatar is my Grandfather on my step family side.: Lt. John James Mackie, Loyal Edmonton Regiment, PPCLI. WW2 Veteran
The picture was taken just a few days before Juno beach and he was made privvy to the operation...hence the solemn look on his face. Every other picture I have of my grandfather he has a smile on...but that one.
That picture says it all to me.
Before his passing in October 2000 he had been to my sister's b-day and even though he could barely stand upright and was in tremendous pain, stuck on an oxygen tank, etc. he still managed some of the most wonderful smiles I have ever seen...a real man in my opinion. Even to his last days he would not show his pain or share his suffering with anyone as I am sure he felt that he had been through much worse already, and didn't want to burden others with his own tribulations.
Everytime I saw him he would say the words "ticketyboo" with a big smile on his face, and for the longest time I thought he was nuts, as I had no idea what the words meant. only 8 years ago did I ever learn of their meaning...Ticketyboo back in the old days meant "Everything is OK...everything is ticketyboo". Now I know.
On top of that, all of my Liberty leanings come from his tuition... his desire not to be directed, or coerced...and his guidance to show me the same desire for independance and Liberty. He also refused to pay Income tax as he somehow felt betrayed by his government. Many times he would mention that of representation instead of governance.
He used to call the people "shareholders of the Nation"...not sure where he got it from but even I use it from time to time.
He used to tell me the three things that make a man a warrior:
1)
Honour: that a man would speak his true meaning and always live up to his word.
2)
Compassion: that for one to be on a path isn't enough, instead that a man should choose the right path that best serves those in need.
3)
Perserverence: that if a man so findeth himself on the right path, there be no reason nor obstacle great enough to make him quit.
Nobody else in my family would speak like this...but as of recent I felt maybe one of us should :wink: . Happily other members of my family are beginning to come around and speak the same words so that we might all be on the same page.
I miss my Grandfather very much and I guess I always will

but if I am to honour him in anyway, it will be to live in his example and pass on his wisdom to others.
