I had a policy of buying my wife some bauble of similar value to the gun I bought for myself. She never complained and she sure dropped the issue quickly when she started to try to include the value of my guns when dividing up common assets when we split. I just asked her to include the value of the jewellery I had gifted her over the years. Hahaha.
Fast forward 12 years....a few years ago she asked me to help her study for and get her rpal, which I did. And now she comes to me for advice on what guns to buy. Her new guy is scared of guns but he foots the bills nicely.
I just get a bottle of fine dry red wine or four roses bourbon and my wife is happy lol. Shes given up on me. She knows ima keep acquiring lol
My bills are paid and my kid doesnt lack anything so the household is good