You previously shot at 50 yards and thought it was ok. You later shot at 100 yards and thought it was not ok. But that's to be expected with a rifle tuned for 50 yards. It should not shoot well at 100 yards. And you seem to be forgetting this, as you are concerned about the results being worse at 100 yards, when that's precisely what should be happening.Not sure what this has to do with the issue at hand.
Not all reamers have a belt, which is what stops you from going too deep. But belted or beltless, nothing stops you from going too shallow.I would talk to JGS or manson and see what the most popular reamer is. Forgot the name of the reamer most people use. I do know a benchrest reamer is going to be specced for a specific rim thickness, and most likely push the bullet into the lands, so it engraves the bullet.
I do know the eley chambers usually work good w lapua and SK. I think RWS rims are thicker if memory serves me right