Other than Lapua I've have some Nosler that 4x fired and going strong. Winchester is not too bad, very close in capacity to Lapua, after 6-7 firings the primer pockets start to expand and its a little too easy to seat a primer in 40-50% of the cases and by 8-10 the necks get thin- Winchester seems to have the most come off while trimming for me. Started using some Starline 2 x fired and so far it's good, not much comes off when trimming and has slightly larger capacity than Lapua.
I don't load things hot, anneal after each firing.