Everything mentioned above is great. Like Westicle, I even grease by bolt lugs, just a throwback from my M14 days.
I like using Hoppe's # 9 oil (found everywhere, including Walmart and LeMoron's), Break Free CLP, Militec, and yes, even Cambodian Tire Air Tool Oil that was leftover from my paintballin' days.
Actually, I kinda liked the air tool oils since it's friendly to any other O-rings and seals well. Cheap, too ! A couple of bucks for a liter !! Smells goofy however !
Just lube your bolt carrier like crazy, that's what matters !
Cheers,
Barney