I've used the 200 gr.BST in my .338 Lapua at 3300 fps. Ballistic Silver tips kill stuff dead ! My buddy uses the Winchester Supreme's in his 300 win mag and they dropped his bull in it's tracks. Yes the jacket might separate at magnum velocities at close range , but when the well placed shot of an accurate bullet has that moose dead on the ground, the bottom line is that the bullet worked ! Nothing against the bonded, and TSX bullets, Use them and like them too, But I think bullet contruction is more critical in smaller calibers than the large ones, and a 300 wby will put a moose to sleep with almost anything you push out the pipe. When a bullet gets a complete pass though, the energy it still retains is a complete waste. As for meat damage, I get as much or more meat damage from my 25-06 with a 117 gr. hornady, as I do with the .338 Lapua with the 200 gr. BST. To avoid any meat damage I guess your only options are to Hit Em In The Head............or become a Bowhunter.
Good Luck Hunting