why are you guys suggesting 45 calibers for small handed folks? The largest caliber in the smallest hands? It needs to be a 9, less recoil, less push, much faster follow up shots much easier to handle for smaller, typically less strong hands. I would NEVER put a 45 in my wifes hands. The CZ Duty is a nice sized pistol compact and very very accurate, Ruger sr9 is also small like the 45 cals mentioned and serioulsy accurate. Hk P2000, one for sale in EE right now is a good small pistol too, shoot nothing larget than 124 gr lead and these are all great shooting and handling pistols.