saskbooknut is right...a 405 grain bullet is correct for carbine loads in the 45-70. Lee mold: 90268...405 gr. hollow base mold, is a good choice for black powder loads. Also: Lee 90374...405 gr. Solid base bullet. Some other suggested molds...all appropriate for your needs and work well with black powder: Lyman 457124...385 gr. Lyman: 457193*...405 gr. *This is a classic bullet for the 45-70. Have used this bullet with both black powder and smokeless loads in the 45-70, for years. Best with black powder. Some of these molds feature round noses, some are flat nosed. I wouldn't get too hung up on bullet nose shape. All will deliver good downrange accuracy and performance. There is no point in going to a 500-plus grain bullet in your carbine. The punishing recoil that resulted from using those heavy bullets was the reason why the US Cavalry switched to the 405 grain bullet for carbine use.
You don't mention whether you have any previous experience shooting blackpowder cartridges. if not, may I suggest these two books by Paul Matthews: "Loading Black Powder Rifle Cartridges",and: "Shooting Black Powder Cartridge Rifles." Whether a novice, or experienced blackpowder shooter, there is a wealth of knowledge in these two books.