SAMMI pressure limit for .45Colt is up around 13K. So these are not powder puff loads by any stretch.
From a buddy that shoots his guns in cowboy action I can tell you that even the starting loads shown in your posted data are not weak loads. The starting loads listed in your first post will hit your hand about the same as a 1911 firing regular power 230gn loads. The full power loads would feel more stout.
I'd probably start at the 8.2gn load and see how you like it. It clearly won't be too light for a 230 bullet.
If you find that you'd like LESS power then things might get iffy. You would need to do some searching to see if anyone is using CFE Pistol for below book loads with any success. The issue is that the burn can become spotty with some powders if they can't develop enough pressure. Some, like Bullseye and Tightgroup, are fine with very low pressures. Others not so much.
When you bell your cases don't go crazy. The added working on the brass will just reduce the life of the cases. You want enough that the bullets seat into the flare neatly even in the shortest case. But no more than that.