- Location
- Winnipeg, unfortunately
I don't see why some people have to hide stuff: There is my money, her money and our money. Our money pays for food, bills, mortgage, etc.. her money pays for her stuff and mine well, it pays my stuff! I don't complain when she buys shoes, she doesn't complain when I buy guns.
As AWOL stated, I too have a long way to go for the 1:1 ratio shoes:guns...![]()
The my money/Her money/our money thing, stopped holding water when we put $16k on my mastercard from selling the old house. $6k was renos on the house, $10k was fun stuff for curtmg. It's understandable if She is skeptical about some of purchases
I've told Her repeatedly to get a goddam hobby and spend some stupid money, but She just won't, so somebody has to spend the money. My biggest fear is that the money will go rotten or expire, if we don't spend it fast enough.